116 SelfWork (Second Time Around) Do You Have Perfectly Hidden or High Functioning Depression?

Published: Jan. 7, 2022, 6 a.m.

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Hello and welcome again to SelfWork! We\'ve got one more week until we\'re back live! \\xa0But I\'ve chosen some of the most popular episodes to listen to a second time around! And of course, today\'s episode is one very close to my heart.

What\\u2019s the difference, or is there one, between Perfectly Hidden Depression and what\\u2019s called high-functioning depression? I\\u2019m particularly motivated \\u2013 in fact very sadly motivated \\u2013 to talk about it because of an email I received this week from a woman whose husband killed himself. He was in his early 40\\u2019s. And no one could believe it. He had a perfect-looking life. Children he loved, a career he felt excited about, friends and family that loved him. Yet he couldn\\u2019t communicate his darker emotions, emotions that would lead him to suicide.\\xa0We\\u2019ll talk about the difference \\u2013 and why that difference matters. In fact, why that difference has to be understood.

The listener email will feature the woman who wrote me about the sudden suicide of her husband, and I\\u2019ll answer her questions concerning where to go from where she is.

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Articles on high-functioning depression:

Author and food writer\\xa0David \\u201cAvocado\\u201d Wolfe

Millennial free lance writer\\xa0Shin Hye\\xa0on The Huffington Post

Counselor\\xa0Annie Wright\\xa0on The Mighty.

You can hear more about mental health and many other topics by listening to my podcast, SelfWork with Dr. Margaret Rutherford.\\xa0Subscribe\\xa0to my website and receive one weekly newsletter including my weekly blog post and podcast! If you\\u2019d like to join my FaceBook closed group, then click here and answer the membership questions! Welcome!

My new book entitled Perfectly Hidden Depression\\xa0has arrived and you can order here! Its message is specifically for those with a struggle with strong perfectionism which acts to mask underlying emotional pain. But the many self-help techniques described can be used by everyone who chooses to begin to address emotions long hidden away that are clouding and sabotaging your current life.

And there\\u2019s a new way to send me a message! You can record by clicking below and ask your question or make a comment. You\\u2019ll have 90 seconds to do so and that time goes quickly. By recording, you\\u2019re giving SelfWork (and me) permission to use your voice on the podcast. I\\u2019ll look forward to hearing from you!

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