S1E7: To the Karen of My Life — Your Silence is Loud

Published: Feb. 19, 2021, 2 p.m.

This episode is to honor survivors of sexual assault. My story can be triggering so listener discretion is advised.

In this episode, I share a story about the Karen of my life. She is a woman, in my ex’s inner circle, who chose to turn her back on me after I condemned her friend for sexually assaulting me. 

I talk about how silence and complicity keep the toxic culture alive of letting men get away with sexual assault. It is so important for women to support women, believe in women, and stand with women…the Karen of my life turned her back on me...she represents someone who contributes to the problem instead of the solution of misogyny, victim-blaming, and systemic racism.

With the recent events of Asian hate crimes and Evan Rachel Wood speaking up against her abuser, Marilyn Manson, I knew this was an important story to share, in hopes to help anyone going through this feel less alone.

If you have ever been victim-blamed or faced silence and complicity from the people in your life who knew your abuser, please know, you did nothing wrong, and you didn’t deserve it.

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
The Breakup Workbook (free ebook): https://www.subscribepage.com/sincerelymissmarybreakupworkbook

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sincerelymissmary/

TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMJK1J3DB/

Clubhouse: @sincerelymary

Rise Up Poetry:
https://medium.com/fearless-she-wrote/rise-up-9f48aabecf5?sk=dda3246343dc9bbe479b2f73a6b99488

Original Karen Essay:
https://aninjusticemag.com/to-the-karen-of-my-life-your-silence-is-loud-e509b0b0db8a?source=friends_link&sk=a17b0882d999d871e73b763780285c3d

Support the show