Episode 40: Personal Goal Misalignment - When You're Not Getting the Results You Want

Published: Feb. 17, 2015, midnight

b'This is an episode about aligning your actions to your true wants in life. I challenge you to ask yourself what are you allowing to happen in your life that\\u2019s not aligned with what you want. This is for anyone who\\u2019s been wanting something in a certain area of life \\u2013 maybe it\\u2019s love, career or health, and you\\u2019re just not getting what it is you want. A lot of the time you don\\u2019t get the things you want because you are unknowingly acting against yourself. Because sometimes we have unconscious actions that are the true reason for us not seeing the results we want. In this episode I will cover a few simple tools on the three categories. For all of them, the solution begins with taking a personal inventory of your behavior: literally, begin to observe yourself and your habits everyday by creating a behavior log. What you\\u2019re looking to record: any and all habits and actions around the pursuit of your goal. Because the real misalignment will show up in those details. It might surprise you to see yourself from an objective standpoint, because most of the time misaligned behavior is totally unconscious. We have no idea how we are blocking ourselves \\u2013 and sometimes it\\u2019s a form of self-sabotage. Like a strange unconscious fear of the thing we truly want. For example, when you are looking for a real relationship but you are biding your time with the flings you know are not the ones you want. You THINK you are desperately seeking love when you are in REALITY staying comfortable with the ones you don\\u2019t feel threatened by: the easy and available. Your actions? NOT ALIGNED. So to help you become more aware of the accidental misalignments in your actions and goals I will go over three topics in detail: Love, Career, and Health. The tools are very simple and the core of them? Just awareness and focus. For more of my writing check out TeaspoonOfHappy.com \\u2013 and smile my lovelies! Xo Sarah May B.\\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices'