Stop Trying to Win the Trauma Olympics By Comparing Your Trauma to Others | Episode 235

Published: Oct. 23, 2023, 4 a.m.

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Content Warning: This episode includes brief mentions of abuse and other experiences that can cause trauma.\\xa0

We so easily compare ourselves to the people around us. While we can admit that comparison is not helpful, it can be especially harmful when we start comparing our trauma because it keeps us from healing. This week\\u2019s episode 235 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast is about trying to win the \\u2018Trauma Olympics\\u2019: stop comparing your trauma to others!\\xa0

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In this episode of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I\\u2019m sharing how downplaying your trauma OR putting yourself into a victim mentality by comparing your trauma to others (as better or worse) keeps you from healing and what you can do instead.

Some of the talking points I go over in this episode include:

  • Coming out of denial to see that I did have trauma - even if it didn\\u2019t look the same as the people around me.
  • The difference between \\u201cbig T\\u201d trauma, and \\u201clittle t\\u201d trauma.\\xa0
  • Differentiating between PTS, PTSD, and CPTSD.
  • Participating in the \\u2018Trauma Olympics\\u2019 keeps us from healing and moving forward.\\xa0

If you must make comparisons, compare yourself to the former you and look to see how far you\\u2019ve come.

Be sure to tune in to all the episodes to receive tons of practical tips on living a more whole life and to hear even more about the points outlined above.

Thank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, take a screenshot of the episode to post in your stories and tag me!\\xa0 And don\\u2019t forget to follow, rate and review the podcast and tell me your key takeaways!

Learn more about Fragmented to Whole at https://higherpowercc.com/podcast/\\xa0


LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

Ep 193. How to Know If You\\u2019re an Adult Child \\u2013 part 1: The Laundry List

Ep 194. How to Know If You\\u2019re an Adult Child \\u2013 part 2: The Other\\xa0 Laundry List

Ep 205.\\xa0 24 Ways Adult Child Traits Show Up in The Workplace \\u2013 Part 1

Ep 206.\\xa0 24 Ways Adult Child Traits Show Up in The Workplace - Part 2\\xa0


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