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I had no idea that I was a people pleaser in the past, I just thought I was nice. Through recovery and coming out of codependence, I came to realize that people pleasing is not nice, and it\\u2019s actually dishonest. This week\\u2019s episode 225 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast is about 5 traits of people pleasers and how they can turn into resentment.\\xa0

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In this episode of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I\\u2019m sharing how, as people pleasers, we become so focused on everyone else that we often neglect our own wants, needs, and desires.\\xa0

The 5 traits common to people pleasers are:

1. Your self-worth is based on what other people think of you and you\\u2019re not even paying attention to what you think of yourself.\\xa0
2. When you see people in conflict, especially people that you care about, something triggers inside of you where you think it is your job to fix the situation.
3. You don\\u2019t even wait for people to ask you for help, you just jump in anyway, regardless if they wanted your help or not.
4. You avoid telling people what\\u2019s really on your mind because you don\\u2019t want to rock the boat\\xa0
5. You feel compelled to help people in order to get their approval so you can have a sense of self-worth.\\xa0

In order to start backing away from your people-pleasing ways, you can start by keeping your focus on yourself rather than on other people and keep this momentum going by taking really good care of yourself.\\xa0

Be sure to tune in to all the episodes to receive tons of practical tips on living a more whole life and to hear even more about the points outlined above.

Thank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, take a screenshot of the episode to post in your stories and tag me!\\xa0 And don\\u2019t forget to follow, rate and review the podcast and tell me your key takeaways!

Learn more about Fragmented to Whole at https://higherpowercc.com/podcast/\\xa0

LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

Ep. 10. My Tools of Recovery Part III: Focus On Me

Ep. 96. How to Get Over the Fear of Missing Out by Keeping the Focus on Yourself

Ep. 102. Why keeping the focus on yourself is the antidote to codependence

Ep. 146.\\xa0 Stop F-ing Blaming Other People and Keep the Focus on Yourself

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