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Published: Feb. 16, 2022, 9 a.m.

Delayed gratitude can be more powerful than gratitude at the moment we\u2019re blessed. We may not fully appreciate what happened until time passes. Listen in to learn more.

A listener offers a correction

In episode 140 from a few weeks ago, I talked about the relational benefits of thanking people in writing for something they did to bless you. Writing a thank you note is a great way to deepen a relationship because it reminds us of the kindness we received, while at the same time it encourages the recipient of the thank you note to continue blessing others.

I also cautioned our listeners in that episode not to expect people to thank you for the good you do for them. Because often they won\u2019t. But you do good things for people anyway, because it\u2019s the right thing to do.

For example, I mentioned that in my reading of the Bible of all the times Jesus blessed people, I couldn\u2019t recall a single time when someone thanked Him for what He did for them.

Soon after that episode aired, a listener - I think from Minnesota - quickly wrote to correct me. Keep listening to hear what she pointed out to me. It\u2019s an interesting story we can all benefit from.

The healed leper who thanks Jesus

Our Minnesota listener pointed out to me that in Luke 17 there is the story of Jesus healing ten lepers, one of whom returned afterward to thank Him. I\u2019ll read this short account from Luke 17: 11-14

As Jesus continued on toward Jerusalem, he reached the border between Galilee and Samaria. As he entered a village there, ten men with leprosy stood at a distance,\xa0 crying out, \u201cJesus, Master, have mercy on us!\u201d\u2028 He looked at them and said, \u201cGo show yourselves to the priests.\u201d And as they went, they were cleansed of their leprosy.\u2028 One of them, when he saw that he was healed, came back to Jesus, shouting, \u201cPraise God!\u201d He fell to the ground at Jesus\u2019 feet, thanking him for what he had done. This man was a Samaritan.\u2028 Jesus asked, \u201cDidn\u2019t I heal ten men? Where are the other nine? Has no one returned to give glory to God except this foreigner?\u201d And Jesus said to the man, \u201cStand up and go. Your faith has healed you.\u201d

Context of the story

The context of this delayed gratitude story is important. For one thing, Jesus had been traveling with his disciples when these 10 lepers appear. Jesus knew they were watching. What he said and how he presented himself was just as much for the benefit of his followers as it was for the lepers. He was teaching by showing, which for them, and many of us, has greater impact than by teaching by telling.

Geography is important in this story. Luke mentions the incident with the lepers takes place at the border between Galilee and Samaria. We can infer then that the 10 lepers were a mix of those from both places. If you were from Galilee, as were Jesus and his disciples, Samaria was considered the other side of the tracks. People from Samaria were looked down upon as second-class citizens. Why this is, I\u2019ll leave for theologians and preachers to explain. They need the work and it keeps them off the dole.

One last thing in terms of context, you might wonder why Jesus told the lepers to present themselves to the priests after they were healed. This happened on other occasions when Jesus healed people. Presenting one\u2019s self to the Jewish priests legitimized their cleansing. Without this, healing by Jesus was considered unofficial. One commentator this said

"It has to do with reintegrating lepers into society. Priests were able to verify that someone was healthy and had been cured (Lev. 13.49; 14:2ff.). Until that time, they were excluded from full participation in the community.

\u201cIn sending the lepers to the priests Jesus is giving them their opportunity to reconnect with loved ones, re-establish careers and resume normal worship.\u201d

Who am I in this story?

This story of the 10 lepers raises two important questions for all of us. The first one is, \u201cAs a person of faith, where do I see myself in this story?\u201d

I\u2019d like to think I would be more like the one leper, the Samaritan leper, who came back to thank Jesus for healing him. Even though I didn\u2019t realize at first Jesus would be healing me as I and the other 9 lepers went to see the Jewish priests, my delayed gratitude to Him would need to be acknowledged. I\u2019d like to think I\u2019d do the right thing in this regard.

But in reality, I think I am more like the 9 other lepers. They all had a measure of faith by believing they would be healed by Jesus, without Jesus actually being present. But it didn\u2019t occur to them to go back and thank Jesus for this huge blessing he granted them.

This reminds me of my interview with Josephine in episode 143. She\u2019s a missionary in Eastern Europe, and when she was on a recent home assignment, she went back to 3 of her former music teachers to thank them for the positive impact each of them had on her life. This was gratitude expressed many years after the fact that was quite powerful. I\u2019ll have a link to it at the bottom of the show notes. It\u2019s one of my favorite episodes.

It shows that sometimes it takes a significant distance of time and space for delayed gratitude to do its work. To touch our hearts in appreciation for how people - and God - have blessed us.

Who is Jesus in the story?

The second important question this story raises is \u201cWho is Jesus?\u201d

For example, at the end of the story, how do you picture Jesus when he asks this rhetorical question,

\u201cDidn\u2019t I heal ten men? Has no one returned to give glory to God except this foreigner?\u201d

Do you see him as angry? Maybe disappointed? Critical, perhaps?

I can\u2019t prove it, but I have a strong hunch he was smiling, maybe even laughing at the lack of gratitude from the other 9 who were healed. Laughing like a parent of a young child who sees the self-centeredness in their offspring. But who at the same time realizes it\u2019s only a matter of time before their son or daughter matures, because he knows that deep down the child will eventually do the right thing.

I picture Jesus thinking and smiling like this and looking like the actor who plays this role of Christ in The Chosen. It\u2019s that Internet series that\u2019s become so popular. To me, he looks like Aaron Rogers, the star quarterback of the Green Bay Packers. But this character who plays Jesus in The Chosen often smiles at the idiosyncrasies of his followers. I can easily imagine Jesus doing the same with us.

Don't you love a Jesus who laughs and smiles? I hope you do.

And I love how in this story Jesus points out the leper with the delayed gratitude is from Samaria. I\u2019m sure Jesus did this for the benefit of his disciples who were from the right side of the tracks in Galilee.

We don\u2019t expect people different t from us to be better than us. But that\u2019s what happened here with the leper from Samaria who praised Jesus with his delayed gratitude.

So what does all this mean for YOU?

I\u2019ll leave you with a question to think about. What is something Jesus has done for you in the past that evokes thankfulness within you now? Where would you be today if Jesus had not done what he did for you back then?

Here\u2019s the main takeaway I hope you remember from today\u2019s episode

Delayed gratitude can be more powerful than thankfulness at the moment we\u2019re blessed. We may not fully appreciate what happened until time passes and the significance of the blessing penetrates our soul. When it does, our relationship with the person who blessed us deepens.

As always, I\u2019d love to hear any thoughts you have about today\u2019s episode. You can even feel free to correct me as our listener from Minnesota did today.

Closing

In closing, I hope your thinking was stimulated by today\u2019s show, to both reflect upon something Jesus has done for you, and then thank him for it, as the cleansed leper from Samaria did.

It\u2019s one way to find the joy God intends for you in your relationship with Him. Because as we all know by now, You Were Made for This.

That\u2019s it for today. In the meantime, spread a little joy in your relationships until we meet up again next time. Goodbye for now.

Related episodes you may want to listen to or watch

143: Initiate with People to Enrich Our Life - Part 1

140: Two Relational Benefits to a Thank You Note

139: Why Should I Listen to this Podcast?

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