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Published: June 30, 2021, 8 a.m.

Often when we\u2019re tired and burdened, Jesus shows up in unusual ways, inviting us to find rest in him in the midst of difficult circumstances. Keep reading to learn How to Find Rest in Difficult Circumstances.

Have you ever found yourself so weary and tired because of a relationship issue, where there didn\u2019t seem to be any attractive options to deal with that issue? I bet you have.

Today\u2019s episode is about a time I was in this situation, where I just wanted to find rest from a nagging concern and not deal with it. I eventually learned, in a most unusual way, a surprising relationship solution to my relationship problem.

I know what I learned could help you, too. It starts here.

A summer job

In last week\u2019s episode, no. 110, Relationships We Didn\u2019t Choose, I mentioned the summer job my guidance counselor found for me after I graduated from high school. It was a factory job at a small manufacturing company that made folding tables for school cafeterias. Recently I checked online and discovered they\u2019re still in business. I thought of stopping in to say, \u201cHi,\u201d but then realized anyone I had worked with would have been dead for decades by now.

I was so fortunate that Mrs. Roller told me about this job. It paid well, over $2.00 an hour, double what I earned in my after-school restaurant job. I got to learn a variety of things, like running a punch press, spot welding, and working a drill press. None of the jobs were terribly hard, but being in a factory, it was hot, and it made me sweat a lot. I also worked there during Christmas break from college, because they need help counting all their inventory of parts by the end of the year.

The good people I worked with

The men I worked with were all very nice. There was Harlow, the manager, a kind man with a mid-century crew cut, who ran the place. Gil, the foreman who always wore bib overalls, and who spent most of his day fixing machines that broke. Adam, the man who taught me how to use the punch press, and who told me, \u201cIf when you\u2019re done with college that teaching thing doesn\u2019t work out, you\u2019ll have this to fall back on\u2026 as long as you don\u2019t get your hands stuck in the punch press.\u201d

Then there was Carl, who was from Lithuania and walked with a slight limp and spoke with a thick European accent. Another guy with an even thicker accent, who could barely speak English, was Fritz. He was from Germany. Rumor had it he was a German soldier during WWII whose job it was to drive a Nazi officer around in a two-person motorcycle. This could explain why he and Carl from Lithuania never spoke to each other.

Finally, there was Eddie, an older single guy with a limp four times worse than Carl\u2019s. He appeared to have been a stroke victim because he had to use one of his arms to move the other. I admired all the things he could do in spite of his handicap.

These were the people I worked with. They accepted me as one of their own, even though we were so different. They had more history than future; I had more future than history.

A scene I remember to this day

One scene in particular from this factory job the summer of my 19th year comes to my mind every now and then. It happened on a late Saturday afternoon at the end of a 53-hour-work-week. We had all been putting in a lot of hours, and I was grateful for the 13 hours of overtime pay. It was going to be a big help in paying for my college tuition for the upcoming fall semester of my sophomore year.

I got to work in those days using the city bus. To return to my home in the suburbs I had to take 2 different bus routes. This particular Saturday afternoon I got onto the second bus exhausted, hot, and sweaty from my factory job. I dragged my body to the rear of the nearly empty bus, and sat down on one of two bench seats, perpendicular to the rest of the forward-facing seats.

I then stared out the window directly across from me and noticed the ads placed along the top of all the windows. They were about 3 feet wide by 18 inches tall. One of the ads in particular caught my eye. It was stuck between two other ads, for things like Chesterfield cigarettes and Cutty Sark whiskey.

An ad from the Lutherans

The eye-catching ad for me was from the Lutheran Church, displaying a picture of Jesus and the words from Matthew 11:28-30 in the Bible.

\u201cCome to me, all of you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.\u201d

Hmm. That\u2019s me, I thought. I\u2019m weary and I\u2019m carrying a heavy burden. I was so tired from all the hours of heat and sweat from my summer job. And now I was heading home, a place where I did not want to be because of the strife and tension there. But as much as I liked my co-workers, I didn\u2019t want to be at work either. So I kept staring at that ad, reading the words from Jesus several times.

\u201cCome to me, all of you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.\u201d

Jesus said, \u201cCome to me\u201d

Maybe these Lutherans were on to something. Maybe I should follow their advice from their ad, and the Bible, to come to Jesus. I didn\u2019t exactly know how to do that. Just a few months earlier I had become a Christ-follower at a Campus Crusade for Christ meeting. So I had already come to Him. But many things about Jesus were all so new to me. There was so much I didn\u2019t understand.

Nevertheless, I found a strange sense of peace from that Bible verse the Lutherans advertised. \u201cCome to me, all of you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.\u201d What I learned that afternoon at the back of the bus was the rest I so deeply wanted is found in a person, not a place.

I wasn\u2019t exactly sure how it worked, but I found comfort in the word choice from the Bible verse the Lutherans shared in their bus ad.

Calming words

Weary. Rest was mentioned twice. Learn from me. Gentle. Humble in Heart. An easy yoke. A light burden.

I like these words, don\u2019t you? They calmed my spirit. They gave me hope that my relationship with Jesus would help me manage my physically tiring factory job, and at the same time He would help me to emotionally cope with the tension in my home I was heading to.

I learned that when I focus on my relationship with Jesus it makes the burdens I\u2019m carrying much lighter. It doesn\u2019t make the problems go away, but it puts them in perspective. I see the burdens for what they are: a temporary blip in light of eternity. My summer job eventually came to an end. And in forgiving my parents for their lack of skill in raising me, I developed compassion for them and the burdens THEY were carrying.

So what does all this mean for YOU?

I wonder what relational burdens you are carrying that are making life weary for you? Where there are no easy answers. Where there\u2019s nowhere to go for you to find rest.

Regardless of your circumstances, coming to a relationship with Jesus certainly helps. His gentleness stands in sharp contrast to the strident nature of the times in which we live.

Like the contrast I saw in those city bus ads so long ago. The Lutheran ad for Jesus in the middle of a cigarette ad on one side, and an ad for whisky on the other. There\u2019s something quite appealing and comforting about someone calling us to himself to find rest, who describes himself as gentle and humble.

The main point of today\u2019s episode

I\u2019ll leave you with this final thought:

When we\u2019re tired, weary, and burdened, Jesus will sometimes do unusual things, like pacing an ad inside a city bus, inviting us to find rest in him, rest for our souls. For when our souls are at rest, the weight of the burdens we carry eases.

I\u2019d love to hear any thoughts you have about today\u2019s episode. Just send them to me in an email to john [at] caringforothers [dot] org. You can also share your thoughts in the \u201cLeave a Reply\u201d box at the bottom of the show notes.

Closing

In closing, if you found the podcast helpful, please subscribe if you haven\u2019t already done so.

I hope your thinking was stimulated by today\u2019s show, to both reflect and to act by entering into a relationship with Jesus to find the rest you need. Because after all, You Were Made for This.

Well, that\u2019s all for today. I look forward to connecting with you again next week. Goodbye for now.

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