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Hello everyone and welcome to episode 38, where today I\u2019ll be sharing responses from several listeners to a question I posed in my September 19, 2019 weekly email. The question was about the Bible verse from Hebrews 10:24, where the writer of the Book Hebrews says,

Let us think of ways to motivate one another to acts of love and good works.

My question was HOW do you do this? HOW does anyone motivate another person to acts of love and good works?

I was thinking if we could hear some real-life examples of this it would give us some practical ideas of what we could do. So listen in to the answers I got to this important question.

So here\u2019s the first response. It comes from a missionary couple living in the Mideast who focus on evangelizing Jewish people all over the world. Here\u2019s how they answered my question of how do you motivate others to acts of love and good works.

\u201cTo be with people who are doing these acts of love. The way we do this is by taking teams and demonstrating as they watch and observe - and then encouraging them to do the same. It\u2019s taking the time to make disciples. Jesus did this and we follow His example.Thanks John. Great question.\u201d

I love their intentionality. Modeling. Showing is far more powerful than telling.

Here\u2019s another response, this one from Dick, a missions leader:
\u201cIf I see something positive that a person has done I try to thank them and be specific about what I am talking about so that they can continue to keep doing what they have just done that is not natural for me I have to work hard on it.\u201d

Because it\u2019s not natural for him, because it\u2019s hard, it\u2019s an example of that transcendent quality of relating that goes beyond what we find comfortable to do. The \u201cT\u201d in T.H.I.S.

It\u2019s also sacrificial for Dick, because it would so much easier to not look for the positive, to not extend himself. It\u2019s the \u201cS\u201d in T.H.I.S.
Way to go, Dick.

The next response is from Cindy, who writes:
\u201cWhen I hear spur onto good works it makes me feel like I haven\u2019t done enough. But as I read it, I think it has more to do with me walking in faith and encouraging others to do the same. Mostly other believers. How? \xa0Read the scriptures and point to that as we go through difficulties, but also joys.\xa0My word and actions has no power to spur anyone on.

\u201cI think when I\u2019m together with two particular girlfriends we bring out scripture that is appropriate for a circumstance in our lives, or talk about it, or talk about Jesus. That is spurring on. I love that.\u201d

Well I love that phrase, \u201cMy word and actions has no power to spur anyone on.\u201d

Another email comes from a not-quite-typicval listener:
"Well John, \U0001f602 this might not count as acts of good works and love, but recently a friend of mine told me that she believed in God but wasn\u2019t sure she was a Christian, I encouraged her to accompany me to an in school bible study with me once it started up and she agreed! My prayer for her is that she will be led to God so he may do good things through her so she can encourage works of good and love to others around her."

Oh, how this grips my heart. It\u2019s from my granddaughter, Eleanor, who signed the email with \u201cYour favorite grandchild.\u201d She\u2019s only 14.
She never calls me \u201cJohn,\u201d always \u201cGrandpa, and she inserted one of those laughing emoticons with tears of laughter. So she got a kick out this, and so did I.\xa0 But I love the depth of concern she has for her friend. I love Eleanor\u2019s value system at her young age.

Well here are my takeaways from today\u2019s episode. What I learned today

We can certainly make an impact in this world by being the best version of our self we can be. But - we can make an even greater impact when we help others be the best version of themselves.

Many times people don\u2019t know what they\u2019re capable of, and we give them a great gift when we show them what they could be. All of the examples our listeners shared about motivating others to love and good works are about reinforcing small acts of positive behavior or thinking. It\u2019s not at all about pointing out flaws or correcting people.

It\u2019s about seeing the goodness in them, reinforcing it, and nudging them on to even greater goodness.

There\u2019s a great personal benefit to us when we encourage others to be more than they are at the moment. Because as I\u2019ve said before in previous episodes, when we bring out the best in others we bring out the best in ourselves.

Before I close, here\u2019s the he main take-away from today\u2019s episode, our show in a sentence

We impact the world for good when we encourage others to be the person God created them to be.

Here\u2019s what you can do in response to today\u2019s show

Ask God to show you someone, just one person, that you can \u201cmotivate to love and good works.\u201d Look for glimpses of positive behavior or thinking you\u2019d like to reinforce, not for your benefit, but for their\u2019s.

Here\u2019s a second thing you can do. Email me with your thoughts, reactions, or questions about anything that comes up in the podcast. There\u2019s a good chance it will stimulate and encourage others.

Finally, here\u2019s a third thing you can do. If you\u2019re not getting a weekly email from me, usually on a Wednesday or Thursday, I encourage you to sign up for my private email list.

By doing so, you\u2019ll get more curated content from your fellow listeners, with their relationship wisdom, that I often don\u2019t have space to include in my weekly podcast. You can unsubscribe at anytime.

Just go to johncertalic.com/subscribe and enter your name and email address, then click the \u201cSubscribe\u201d button.

Our Relationship Quote of the Week

\u201cLet us dedicate ourselves to what the Greeks wrote so many years ago: to tame the savageness of man and make gentle the life of this world.\u201d

~ Robert Kennedy, speaking to a crowd of African-Americans, several hours after the assassination of

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April 4, 1968 is connected to the most important day of my life, because it began the most important relationship in my life that continues on to this day. I wrote about it in chapter 7 of my book THEM. And I talked about it in episode 21 of this podcast. I\u2019ll have links to both in the show notes.

Closing

Thanks for listening in today. I hope you feel part of us. I hope you are encouraged by hearing what others are doing to

Think of ways to motivate one another to acts of love and good works. Hopefully in hearing what others are doing it will encourage you to think of ways you can motivate others to love and good works.

Above all, I trust you appreciate how you were made for this. T-Transcendent relationships, like our friend Dick mentioned earlier in ways that do not come naturally for him. Relationships that H-Honor others Relationships that I - Initiate like Eleanor talked about with inviting her 9th grade friend to a Bible study. And relationships that S - Selflessly serve others like the missionary couple from the Mideast in their ministry to Jews around the world.

You Were Made for T.H.I.S!

That\u2019s all for today. See you next week. Bye for now.

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THEM - The Richer Life Found in Caring for Others.

Episode 21 - \u201cThe Most Important Relationship of All\u201d