Military Child to ROTC hopeful to Military Mom - Episode 16

Published: April 2, 2019, 10 a.m.

b'In today\\u2019s episode your host Amanda Huffman interviews Elaine Brye.\\nWhen you join the United States military, you don\\u2019t just sign up for duty; you also commit your loved ones to lives of service all their own. \\nNo one knows this better than Elaine Brye, an \\u201cArmy brat\\u201d turned military wife and the mother of four officers\\u2014one each in the Army, Navy, Air Force, and Marine Corps. For more than a decade she\\u2019s endured countless teary goodbyes, empty chairs at Thanksgiving dinners, and sleepless hours waiting for phone calls in the night. She\\u2019s navigated the complicated tangle of emotions\\u2014pride, worry, fear, hope, and deep, enduring love\\u2014that are part and parcel of life as a military mother.\\nIn Be Safe, Love Mom Elaine braids together her own personal experiences with those of fellow parents she\\u2019s met along the way. She offers gentle guidance and hard-earned wisdom on topics ranging from that first anxious goodbye to surrendering all control of your child, from finding comfort in the support of the military community and the healing power of faith to coping with the enormous sacrifices life as a military mother requires. Readers looking for encouragement and hard-to-come-by information as they travel the challenging road of having a child in uniform will find Elaine a wise and trusted friend, and Be Safe, Love Mom an essential handbook to membership in a strong and special sisterhood.\\nElaine talks about her journey to military life. It started with her being the reason her mother left the military as women were not allowed to serve when they were pregnant. Her mom left the military, but her dad continued to serve throughout her childhood. And although she drifted away from the military in college ended up being drawn back and attended the Reserve Officer Training Corps program.\\nHer commander left her with this advice, \\u201cDon\\u2019t ever think these two years of training has been wasted. You will use this over and over again in your future life.\\u201d Not knowing she would become a mom of four kids who all joined the military. She didn\\u2019t know how true the words he spoke to her that day would be. \\nHer son attended the Naval Academy and his freshman (plebe) year 9/11 happened and it changed the course of the rest of the family. When he graduated he joined the Marines and is an F-18A fighter pilot. Her second son also joined and attend the Naval Academy and is a Flight Officer. Her daughter was accepted to both the Naval and Air Force Academy. And while she attended the Naval Academy, she cross commissioned into the Air Force. You can hear her story here in Episode 15. Her final son attended ROTC and joined the Army. \\nAfter some encouragement she decided to write Be Safe, Love Mom a book for military moms and for those outside of the military community to understand what it is like to be connected to the military. I have had a chance to read it and I loved reading the perspective of a mom. I haven\\u2019t ever talked to my mom about the emotion behind being a military mom and hearing the story of Elaine and the perspective she adds from others was moving and helped me understand what it is like to be a parent of a military member.\\nConnect with Elaine: *contains affiliate links\\nFacebook\\nTwitter\\nBuy Be Safe, Love Mom\\nMentioned in this Episode:\\nFrom the Navy to the Air Force: Katrina Moon\\n31 Days of Deployment Stories'