Your Metamour Isn’t The Problem

Published: Jan. 19, 2022, 11:54 p.m.

If you’re in a polyamorous relationship, it’s easy to blame a lot of problems on your metamour. But here’s the truth: If your metamour is in control of your relationship then either you or your partner is doing something wrong. The power in your relationship doesn’t lie with another person. It lies with you and your partner. And when your relationship is solid no one can tear you apart.