#127: “Spend More Time Together” is Awful Advice

Published: June 2, 2021, 5:39 p.m.

When your relationship isn't going well, the first thing people do is spend more time together. But if you're like most people, you likely found that more time together just means more time to argue. More time to sit across the room from each other engrossed in your phone. More time to reflect on how much spending time together SUCKS. Here’s why “spend more time together'' is horrible advice, and what you should do instead.