Jang Yoon tells his story of growing up as a closeted, gay Korean immigrant who, after coming to the U.S., was immersed in a Christian community—a go-to hub for a lot of Korean immigrants. Jang recalls how the church discouraged all kinds of sexuality, especially homosexuality. In some ways, Jang felt “relief” being part of a community that didn’t discuss sex—it meant he didn’t ever have to address why he wasn’t bringing home girlfriends or talking about being attracted to women. At the same time, it was agony for Jang to conceal his identity and not able to fully express who he is. However, as Jang grew up, encountered new experiences, and eventually moved to Durham where he found the House of Coxx—the drag house that another guest of the show, Stormie Daie (episode 2), is a part of—he started to live what he now calls “his best gay life.” Today, Jang is a part of the House of Coxx community and a budding drag queen who goes by the name, Li’l Dumpling and you can tell even in his tone of voice, that there is a difference in how Jang feels now that he has found his people and explored his sexuality. At the same time, Jang’s story reminds folks grappling with their sexuality that it’s ok to come out at your own pace; that even the agony of silence comes with certain kinds of relief.
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