Episode 183 - JUSTICE: The Struggle for Balance

Published: Oct. 7, 2021, 4 a.m.

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Principles of fairness and justice have deep roots in the human psyche: we want to receive our fair share and a fair shake. When man injures man, we may protest, strive for redress, and measure wrong with morality\\u2014but what about godly misfortunes? Life, myth, and religion are rich with issues of injustice. Whether personal injury, social inequality, or divine mystery, over-insistence on fairness can lead to depression, resentment, and fixation.

Instead, we must distinguish injustice from loss, recognize what can and cannot be changed, and orient to the future. Imprisoned in a concentration camp, Viktor Frankl later wrote, \\u201cEverything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms\\u2014to choose one\\u2019s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one\\u2019s way.\\u201d\\xa0

Here\\u2019s the dream we analyze:

\\xa0\\u201cI stood opposite my husband as he told me he\\u2019d found somewhere else to live, and with a mystery woman. I paced around; we were in a busy place. I reached for my phone, unsure whom to phone or text. I felt panic as I realized I wasn\\u2019t sure who I could rely on, aware of a sense of burden. I didn\\u2019t have a job yet; how would I support myself and our children? In the dream, I was aware there was a separation that felt as if I had instigated it in order for him to realize our marriage was worth saving. However, him moving on so swiftly made me feel as if I\\u2019d made a huge mistake. As I returned home, my neighbor invited me to a cafe to talk. I felt hungry, and junk food was placed in front of me. She wanted the gossip. I felt the urge to share but knew everyone would soon know about my husband leaving.\\u201d\\xa0

REFERENCE:

Viktor Frankl, Man\\u2019s Search for Meaning, https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0006IU470/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_8Q0BT8KHK0WD6CCPAHWJ

\\xa0RESOURCES:

Learn to Analyze your own Dreams:\\xa0 https://thisjungianlife.com/enroll/

Link to Lisa\\u2019s lecture and workshop October 15-16, 2021:\\xa0https://ofj.org/event/another-whom-we-do-not-know-dreams-as-the-voice-of-the-inner-companion/

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