TU47: Attachment Insecurity and Secure Parenting with Guest Tina Payne-Bryson

Published: Oct. 30, 2017, 1 p.m.

b"Let's get\\xa0real about not being a perfect parent or\\xa0partner so we can do both better!\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0Regulation before reflection!\\xa0\\xa0\\n\\nNYT best-selling author\\xa0Tina Payne Bryson\\xa0talks with Sue Marriott, co-host of Therapist Uncensored about being honest about parenting (& partnering) when you\\xa0don't have a secure background yourself.\\xa0 They cover\\xa0constructing\\xa0a coherent narrative and why that's not really enough, and what needs to be added to the equation.\\xa0 they get\\xa0into what healthy\\xa0integration\\xa0means and\\xa0how it\\xa0helps us navigate under stress and in the heat of an\\xa0argument.\\xa0 They also discuss the grief process in relation to our own parents and how that can open up\\xa0possibilities\\xa0of mending old\\xa0ruptures and creating new growth.\\xa0Finally\\xa0they really get into the role of the body over the mind in creating the bottom line, a healthy regulation of self to help others.\\xa0\\xa0\\xa0\\n\\nTina Payne Bryson\\xa0is\\xa0co-author with Dr. Dan Siegel of\\xa0The Whole Child Brain, The Yes Brain\\xa0and\\xa0No-Drama Discipline\\xa0and founder of The Center for Connection in Pasadena.\\xa0\\xa0Dr.\\xa0Bryson keynotes conferences and conducts workshops for parents, educators, and clinicians all over the world, and she has written for numerous publications, for example\\xa0mom.me,\\xa0SkillForKids\\xa0and\\xa0the PBS series \\u201cThis Emotional Life.\\u201d\\xa0 She has also co-hosted a web-based parenting show and makes frequent media appearances at venues like\\xa0TIME,\\xa0\\u201cGood Morning America,\\u201d\\xa0Huffington Post,\\xa0Redbook,\\xa0The New York Times,\\xa0and\\xa0Real Simple. \\xa0She is the Child Development Specialist at Saint Mark\\u2019s School in Altadena, the Director of Parenting Education at the Mindsight Institute, the Director for Child Development for Camp Chippewa in Cass Lake, Minnesota, and the Child Development Director for Lantern Camps. \\xa0Tina earned her LCSW and Ph.D. from the University of Southern California, where her research explored attachment science, childrearing theory, and the emerging field of interpersonal neurobiology.\\xa0\\n\\nListen to the first one,\\xa0Episode 27 Raising Secure Children here."