Support Systems

Published: May 13, 2021, 10:30 a.m.

Hey, there! I started this week’s episode with my tea talk (cinnamon-apple-chamomile tea) and a life update about reading, having a slow week, and taking the SATs. I introduce this week’s discussion by defining support systems, stating why I’m recording this episode now, clarifying a disclaimer, and laying out the structure for the discussion. Then, I break up the importance of support systems into speaking and being social creatures. Next, I break down my support system. Afterward, I explain how to keep your power in your support systems: preserving your opinion and questioning who you’re letting in. Lastly, I wrap up with some key takeaways and my favourites in food, series, and books. TO GET DIRECTLY TO THE CONTENT, SKIP TO: 09:08 FOLLOW THE PODCAST’S INSTAGRAM: https://instagram.com/theasteapodcast?igshid=r04b2760fkdl CONTACT ME THROUGH: theasteapodcast@gmail.com (for business inquiries, sponsorships or to tell me what you think about this podcast!) SEND ME A VOICE MESSAGE: https://anchor.fm/th351a-beaury/message CHECK OUT THE DESIGNERS OF MY COVER ART: https://instagram.com/sofiarrublacreative?igshid=1xtsd1w69zkkl https://instagram.com/cuerpobaldio?igshid=1jq5cb59nm2z Listen to my other podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/3RhYyCBLVwBuNimne4zVCO?si=AG_LzDsuQdqBYedSmFOkfQ Follow my TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMJwKjr2L/ START YOUR PODCAST NOW BY HEADING TO anchor.fm CHECK OUT THE THINGS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE (IN ORDER OF APPEARANCE): Brené Brown Listen to my episode on therapy (on Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/episode/0BNZtjfTVYcodal1AXk4d5?si=GgQ3LQlKSzinp47nXj2fvg Gilmore Girls The Sun and her Flowers by Rupi Kaur Listen to Rupi Kaur’s interview on Girlboss Radio (on Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/episode/0w7ihNoYV5xlWW2owz8DwT?si=iYUbDCn8S_6X5ud1qDrZAQ HERE ARE SOME QUOTES I LIKED FROM THIS WEEK’S EPISODE: 13:00 = “Support systems are useless if you don’t believe in yourself first” 18:45 = “A support system is like a mattress: if you’re falling down, it will soften the crash” 19:10 = “People who say things that matter, when it matters most” 31:50 = “You need to support yourself first” 31:55 = “You need to be on your team before you recruit other people” 35:15 = “The support system is for them to support you” 35:40 = “Don’t blindly follow all the advice your support system gives you” 36:00 = “Imagine you’re the CEO, sitting at the end of the table, and your support system are the heads of different departments giving you their input. At the end of the day, YOU make the call” 38:00 = “Your support system should make you feel good but also be able to say what must be said” 41:00 = “A support system won’t solve all your problems” 41:05 = “You can’t delegate that decision-making kind of responsibility” Thanks for tuning in, have a beautiful week!