Support Systems

Published: May 13, 2021, 10:30 a.m.

Hey, there! I started this week\u2019s episode with my tea talk (cinnamon-apple-chamomile tea) and a life update about reading, having a slow week, and taking the SATs. I introduce this week\u2019s discussion by defining support systems, stating why I\u2019m recording this episode now, clarifying a disclaimer, and laying out the structure for the discussion. Then, I break up the importance of support systems into speaking and being social creatures. Next, I break down my support system. Afterward, I explain how to keep your power in your support systems: preserving your opinion and questioning who you\u2019re letting in. Lastly, I wrap up with some key takeaways and my favourites in food, series, and books.\n\n\n\nTO GET DIRECTLY TO THE CONTENT, SKIP TO: 09:08\n\n\nFOLLOW THE PODCAST\u2019S INSTAGRAM: https://instagram.com/theasteapodcast?igshid=r04b2760fkdl\nCONTACT ME THROUGH: theasteapodcast@gmail.com (for business inquiries, sponsorships or to tell me what you think about this podcast!)\nSEND ME A VOICE MESSAGE: https://anchor.fm/th351a-beaury/message\nCHECK OUT THE DESIGNERS OF MY COVER ART: https://instagram.com/sofiarrublacreative?igshid=1xtsd1w69zkkl\nhttps://instagram.com/cuerpobaldio?igshid=1jq5cb59nm2z\nListen to my other podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/3RhYyCBLVwBuNimne4zVCO?si=AG_LzDsuQdqBYedSmFOkfQ\nFollow my TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMJwKjr2L/ \nSTART YOUR PODCAST NOW BY HEADING TO anchor.fm\n\n\nCHECK OUT THE THINGS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE (IN ORDER OF APPEARANCE):\nBren\xe9 Brown\nListen to my episode on therapy (on Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/episode/0BNZtjfTVYcodal1AXk4d5?si=GgQ3LQlKSzinp47nXj2fvg\nGilmore Girls\nThe Sun and her Flowers by Rupi Kaur\nListen to Rupi Kaur\u2019s interview on Girlboss Radio (on Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/episode/0w7ihNoYV5xlWW2owz8DwT?si=iYUbDCn8S_6X5ud1qDrZAQ\n\n\nHERE ARE SOME QUOTES I LIKED FROM THIS WEEK\u2019S EPISODE:\n13:00 = \u201cSupport systems are useless if you don\u2019t believe in yourself first\u201d\n18:45 = \u201cA support system is like a mattress: if you\u2019re falling down, it will soften the crash\u201d\n19:10 = \u201cPeople who say things that matter, when it matters most\u201d\n31:50 = \u201cYou need to support yourself first\u201d\n31:55 = \u201cYou need to be on your team before you recruit other people\u201d\n35:15 = \u201cThe support system is for them to support you\u201d\n35:40 = \u201cDon\u2019t blindly follow all the advice your support system gives you\u201d\n36:00 = \u201cImagine you\u2019re the CEO, sitting at the end of the table, and your support system are the heads of different departments giving you their input. At the end of the day, YOU make the call\u201d\n38:00 = \u201cYour support system should make you feel good but also be able to say what must be said\u201d\n41:00 = \u201cA support system won\u2019t solve all your problems\u201d\n41:05 = \u201cYou can\u2019t delegate that decision-making kind of responsibility\u201d \n\n\nThanks for tuning in, have a beautiful week!