Words Matter, Talking on Eggshells & Changing Relationships by Changing Our Words With Sam Horn

Published: July 10, 2023, 9 a.m.

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Episode Highlights With Sam

  • Why she gave away almost everything she owned and became a nomad for a year
  • The reason words matter so much and how to get better about the words we use
  • Why parents should get the word \\u201ccareful\\u201d out of our vocabularies with our kids
  • Words that, as parents, we should USE and words we should LOSE
  • A simple exercise to shift your words in parenting
  • Replace stop with start in parenting
  • Capable instead of careful
  • Replace "No" with "Yes you can" as soon as
  • Why to replace the word should with next time or from now on
  • We can\\u2019t motivate anyone to do better by making them feel bad
  • How to be a pattern interrupt
  • Replace \\u201cnothing\\u2019 and \\u201cno way\\u201d with \\u201cThere\\u2019s something\\u201d and \\u201cI wish\\u201d
  • Language to use when kids are sad, upset, or mad
  • When we think we are comforting and we are actually contradicting them and how to paraphrase and understand instead
  • Why not to explain when people complain and what to do instead (agree, apologize, and act)
  • Two words that can put grievances and grudges in the past
  • Replace finding fault with finding solutions
  • Four words that help us keep our cool even when other people aren\\u2019t
  • In influencing others, example is not the main thing\\u2026 it is the only thing

Resources We Mention

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