Overcoming Perfectionism and Self-Doubt and Becoming Flawesome With Kristina Mand-Lakhiani

Published: June 14, 2023, 9 a.m.

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Episode Highlights With Kristina

  • How she was born in a country that doesn\\u2019t exist anymore and was selected for the Olympic reserves multiple times
  • Why too much positivity can actually be detrimental to us and how to safeguard against this
  • Life is like a dance and there aren\\u2019t necessarily simple answers or linear paths
  • How she defines authenticity and what happens when we aren\\u2019t authentic to ourselves
  • The dark side of personal growth and how the extremes can feed our insecurities
  • How to reframe and instead of thinking of slaying the dragons think of taming them and learning to ride them
  • Vulnerability has two components: the courage of acting despite the fear and the uncertainty of not knowing what will result
  • How people can misuse the practice of meditation or gratitude when they start to happen on autopilot
  • What emotional analgesia is and why she believes it is a big problem for us
  • You can\\u2019t numb emotions selectively\\u2026 if you numb one, you numb the ability to feel all of them
  • Remembering that we are allowed to feel all of our emotions and not judge them and still choose to act from our values and not our emotions
  • We are not our emotions but why they are valuable feedback
  • Self love is actually about the relationship with yourself
  • The difference between self love and self care and why this difference is important
  • Self care is skin deep and self love has more depth
  • Is imposter syndrome actually a sign that you\\u2019ve done something good?
  • An important question: Can you still love yourself if you fail?
  • When we use love as currency and how to avoid this
  • Try an experiment of replacing judgement with curiosity in your relationship with yourself

Resources We Mention

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