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513: Tanner Wallace on Childhood Trauma, Attachment Wounds, and How to Heal

Published: Jan. 13, 2022, noon

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This episode is about the tough but very important topic of childhood trauma. I\\u2019m here with Dr. Tanner Wallace, a former university professor of health and human development turned full-time trauma recovery guide. She hosts her own podcast called \\u201cThe Relational Healing Podcast\\u201d and helps adult survivors of childhood trauma heal their attachment wounds.

We discuss how childhood wounds can express in our lives, even if we don\\u2019t have a really specific extreme trauma, and the way these wounds show up in our relationships. We also go into the differences between traumatic events, how what happens after an event is often more important than the event itself, and the reason emotional neglect can be more harmful than physical abuse for children.

There will definitely be follow-ups to this episode. But as a starting point, I can\\u2019t wait to share today\\u2019s episode with you. Let\\u2019s join Dr. Tanner.

Episode Highlights With Tanner Wallace

  • How childhood wounds can express in our lives, even if we don\\u2019t know we have specific trauma
  • The way childhood wounds show up in adult relationships
  • Differences between traumatic events and if they are traumatizing or not
  • How what happens after an event is often more important than the event itself\\xa0
  • Why trauma isn\\u2019t just assault and physical abuse
  • The reason emotional neglect can be more harmful than physical abuse
  • How trauma and wounding are a continuum
  • The way our brains and bodies cope with trauma and how our personalities develop protective responses
  • First steps to recognizing and starting to unpattern childhood wounds
  • How to deactivate default survival codes\\xa0
  • The somatic connection to working through childhood wounds and how to develop the body awareness
  • Witness, befriend, validate, and eventually release\\xa0
  • What attachment wounds are and how to recognize them
  • Why many of these wounds often bubble up when we enter primary relationships and start creating families
  • How to find a trauma-informed therapist to help work through this
  • What the Internal Family Systems Model is and how this method works
  • Her Relational Healing Lab approach
  • What emotions are and tools for helping our kids have a better emotional vocabulary from a young age
  • And more!

Resources We Mention

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