EP 61 Getting real about (not having) sex

Published: Oct. 22, 2018, 9 p.m.

This week, Sheri and Nancy spill their secrets with some real talk about one of the most muddled and mysterious parts of being single in the middle of life (or, let’s face it, in any stage of life, married or single): Sex. When will they have it, how are they going to find the men to have it with, and, the big kahuna question, do they even want it anymore?

While Nancy is in the midst of her Match.com adventures, she admits to a lack of interest in the “talent” she’s finding online. Sheri thinks the answer is hormone therapy! She jumps in to find the best expert on hormones to help them ramp up their libidos. Together Sher and Nance talk candidly about sex, and the lack thereof, and issue a call out to the DreamTribe for insights and guidance (or at least some juicy stories).

 

Takeaways:

  • Happy birthday! Sheri is 59 and feelin’ fine. Both Sher and Nance urge us all to own our age and let however many times you have been around the sun serve as an inspiration to stir up the Dream Pot.
  • Whether answering online dating messages or getting ready for an in-person meet-up, dating takes up a lot of energy. Nancy realizes she may not be interested in exerting the effort, and Sheri does some vibrational work (not that kind) on her own dating energy.
  • If women have to primp and preen for every date, men can return the favor and hide the blue pills in the nightstand.
  • Calling all DreamTribers in long-term relationships: Tell us your sex stories!  Head over to the This Is Fifty Facebook Page and spill. Sher and Nance want to hear how you keep the Romance + Sex Pillar thriving, or the challenges you’ve faced in that area, with your mate or on your own. If you want to keep your conversation private, email us at team@thepillarlife.com, and all will be anonymous.
  • We are each the CEO of our own health, and it is up to us to find the best team in all aspects of our mental, physical, spiritual and sexual well being.

 

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