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Published: Jan. 26, 2024, 6 a.m.

I\u2019ve pulled what is the most downloaded episode of SelfWork\u2019s history today because I've had to step off the stage again in my work to allow my body and mind to heal. Two weeks ago, I was in a huge hurry, bounding down my staircase, talking to my husband over my shoulder, in my clumsy Uggs boots \u2013 and I managed to pull off a head over heels tumble down the steps, eight or nine of them \u2013 and landed on a slate floor. Broken collarbone, mild concussion, and so many bumps and bruises... we won\u2019t even go there.

I\u2019m doing okay. Having some nightmares \u2013 which I suspected I would. My body is healing. My husband has been incredible. But I obviously got way behind \u2013 and so today I turn to Tina Turner who died this past year for a little inspiration for all of you.

This episode is about a night in my own life, when I realized that I needed to take a different role in my family. It\u2019s what happens in healthy families. The change felt odd. But I realize now that it was the beginning of what should have been and needed to be. I think I love this concept so much because it uses a stage analogy. Roles change in families. And accepting those changes is part of being healthy in your own role, both on your own stage and the stage of your family.

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