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Published: Feb. 24, 2023, 6 a.m.

This month we\u2019ve been talking about relationships.This week I heard Andrew Solomon speak about his book Far from the Tree \u2013 when parents have a child that has some kind of difference from them, and they struggle not to see that difference as a problem or something that needs to be fixed. I found his ideas fascinating \u2013 the relationship between parents and children \u2013 and how love is far different than acceptance. And how we as adults (or children) can struggle with not feeling acceptance from family but can discover it in social acceptance. So, let\u2019s dig into that topic a bit today and I'll add in my own ideas as we go.

The listener email is from a mental health professional who tried to hide from her own depression for several reasons \u2013 but isn\u2019t now. She\u2019s kind enough to attribute that to my book and podcast. I\u2019ll tell her story and share some of her thoughts and hope that for any of you out there who feel that you simply cannot talk about yourself or your struggles with any transparency, that you\u2019ll pause and think about that for a second.

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Andrew Solomon's interview with Big Think on the difference between love and acceptance

interview with \xa0Dr. Adam Hill\xa0here on SelfWork!

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