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Published: Nov. 13, 2020, 6 a.m.

I\u2019ve been surprised over the years about the things people believe about alcohol use that\u2019s very old-school. For example, that for the use of alcohol to be a problem, you\u2019ve got to be lying in a ditch somewhere, having lost your job and friends. Or if you can go a long time without drinking, then you don\u2019t have an issue.

Statistics show that one out of every eight people in the US fit criteria for alcohol use disorder, as it\u2019s called now. It can cause all kinds of pain for both the drinker and those that love them. Especially curiously for those who are high-functioning drinkers \u2013 people whose lives look quite intact socially and/or professionally, who can be quite successful and engaged in their own right. Yet they drink. A lot. Whether it\u2019s a part of family gatherings, the music you listen to, gameday celebrations \u2013 if you drink to celebrate and drink to grieve \u2013 it can be detrimental to just about everything about you.

And what remains astounding is how easy it is to stay in denial about it. So that's the topic for today on SelfWork, with this episode again sponsored by BetterHelp.

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