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Published: May 15, 2020, 5 a.m.

I\u2019ve watched hundreds of people cry over the years. Some will do everything in their power to stop it while some allow them to come easily.\xa0But it\u2019s a very moving moment when you see and feel someone break through some emotional wall or barrier they had built \u2013 and allow themselves to connect with sadness or pain that\u2019s been silently carried for far too long. In fact, it\u2019s quite an honor to be allowed into that emotional space.

In this episode. sponsored by BetterHelp, we\u2019re going to talk first about crying \xa0But then we\u2019ll define emotional intelligence (EI) and identify what positive psychologists believe its importance to be. And the good news? You can build EI. We'll discuss the four pillars of emotional intelligence, basically what it's based on, and as always, what you can do about it.

The listener email for today is all about trying to help a parent (or it could be a friend or loved one) fight against loneliness and depression.

Important Links:

BetterHelp, the #1 online therapy provider, has a special offer for you now!.

A well-written article on crying by Dr. Nick Knight.

An\xa0article by Nicole Fisher in Forbes Magazine about how the brain processes physical and emotional pain

An \xa0article in The Atlantic. on the darker side of emotional intelligence.

Maria Concei\xe7\xe3o Serraon on the four pillars of emotional intelligence.

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You can hear more about this and many other topics by listening to my podcast,\xa0SelfWork with Dr. Margaret Rutherford.\xa0Subscribe\xa0to my website and receive one weekly newsletter including my weekly blog post and podcast! If you\u2019d like to join my FaceBook closed group, then click here and answer the membership questions! Welcome!

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