TMHS 185: Embracing Change And Gaining Emotional Agility - With Dr. Susan David

Published: Nov. 8, 2016, 11:05 p.m.

Things are going to happen. Good stuff, not-so-good-stuff\u2026 life can be a dance between the two. But, as the research shows, it\u2019s not so much what happens to us, but how we respond to what happens to us that determines the quality of our lives.

When it comes to our health and fitness, millions of people each year raise the white flag and give up on their goals to have something greater because of something they may have never even heard about before. They give up because of their lack of emotional agility.

When you are taking action to change your body and your health, challenges will arise. As much as I don\u2019t want to say this, it\u2019s just part of the process! You are becoming someone you have never met before, so that process will come with a learning curve and relationship adjustments that only emotional agility can enable you to traverse.

Today we have one of the world\u2019s foremost experts on emotional agility here for you to learn from. Dr. Susan David literally wrote the book on Emotional Agility, and what she\u2019s sharing with you today will undoubtedly change your life from this day forward if you take action on it.

In this episode you'll discover:
  • How thinking positive can be at odds with what truly helps people thrive.
  • How our thoughts, actions, and stories can cause us to act\xa0incongruent\xa0with our values.
  • What it means to go from\xa0rigidity to agility.
  • What it means to be \u201chooked\u201d and how this controls our thoughts and actions.
  • How the same thought patterns that keep us safe can also keep us from success.
  • What\xa0premature cognitive commitment\xa0is (you probably do this a lot!).
  • What the difference is between thinking fast and thinking slow.
  • What the\xa04 most common emotional hooks\xa0are (this is powerful!).
  • How\xa0thought-blaming\xa0can disempower you.
  • Why it\u2019s helpful to move to the edge of what we\u2019re comfortable with.
  • How our need to be right can lead us to outcomes that don\u2019t serve us.
  • Why negative emotions are so valuable versus a\xa0hyper-focus on happiness.
  • What the 4 essential movements are for gaining more emotional agility.
  • What it means to \u201cshow up\u201d when it comes to emotional agility.
  • How to\xa0rise above our emotions\xa0and not be controlled by them.
  • The critical difference between a \u201chave to goal\u201d and \u201cwant to goal\u201d.
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