As James Brown would say, "This is a man's world, but it wouldn't be nothing without a woman". A woman who is supportive and ecouraging, ambitious and trustworthy, but most of all loving and God-fearing. Throughout history we have seen a lot of women who were a pivatol part in a family's structure. However, a woman can be a "Builder" or a "Destroyer" when it comes to her husband and her children. A builder meaning helping to mode the home into a prosperous and loving family. A destroyer meaning lacking any goals of keeping the family unity and structure together. What are the characteristics of a Builder? What are things that parents need to teach their daughters on how to become a Builder? With modern day times, can we generalize all women to be builders or destroyers?