How This Couple is Choosing to Pay Off Their Debt Before Marriage

Published: Oct. 14, 2019, 11:30 a.m.

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On this episode of \\u201cIn the Middle,\\u201d we talk to Ashonzay and Ellie, a couple that has\\xa0combined their debt-free journey with their health and lifestyle changes. They are the founders of Debt Free & Fitness, and their mission is to help people live a healthy lifestyle with both their finances and their bodies.\\xa0

Ashonzay and Ellie came from different financial backgrounds, and consequently, they entered into their relationship with very different financial situations. In total, their debt began at 120k, with most of it coming from Ashonzay, and within the past 6 months, they have reduced it by about 26k.\\xa0

Ashonzay openly shares about his hesitation to be transparent with Ellie about his debt, feeling ashamed, embarrassed, and fearful that it might negatively impact their relationship. In response, Ellie sets an incredible example of acknowledging her privilege, showing compassion, and accepting responsibility for her future husband\\u2019s debt.

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WHAT YOU WILL LEARN

  • How to accept and understand your partner\\u2019s debt
  • How to have a conversation with your partner about your debt
  • Becoming financially transparent prior to marriage
  • Creating discretionary budgets to make budgeting sustainable
  • Organizing budgets and savings towards multiple goals
  • Cutting back on excess spending
  • Meal prepping to help both the budget and health
  • Living intentionally while avoiding burnout
  • Building a debt-free community
  • Finding joy in things that don\\u2019t cost money
  • Pushing through non-motivation and remembering your \\u201cWhy\\u201d

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RESOURCES MENTIONED

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