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In our series \\u201cWhiplash,\\u201d we are looking at ways to survive life\\u2019s ups and downs. This week we'll be talking about conflict in relationships. Friendships, families, marriages, neighbors, coworkers, teammates... all relationships take work. Join us this weekend as we learn how to be courageous in fighting for healthy relationships in the face of conflict.

In this message, Jeff touched on four points, or principles, that we as Christians can rely on to help us get through relational conflict. These principles will help us to resolve relational conflict in a way that will best protect our hearts and honor what Jesus has taught us about loving people. \\xa0

1) Beware of rationalization - when we convince ourselves that we only have one good motive but deep down we are being driven by more negative motives.\\xa0 We can\\u2019t justify treating people poorly!\\xa0
2) Show Undeserved Kindness - when it comes to conflict, we often find ourselves wanting to return hostility with more hostility! When people treat us poorly, we have to want to go above and beyond and treat those people with kindness. \\xa0
3) Establish Necessary Boundaries - evaluate and establish boundaries. There are some people in life who are just unhealthy to have a relationship with. Establishing boundaries protects your heart and soul from the negatives about that relationship.\\xa0
4) Courageously Convey Affection - when it comes to someone who you have had conflict with, you have to convey your affection! Whether that be hugs and kisses or words, convey the affection you have for them so they know that you care about them.\\xa0 Stepping into expression of affection is key to overcoming conflict with the people you care about. \\xa0

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