120: Love Radicalizes You with Kane Goldgell

Published: July 3, 2019, 2:11 a.m.

With his engagement deteriorating, artist Kane Goldgell fell for his best friend—his confidant, a woman he had even spent his formative years with. They sounded like a perfect match, the chemistry felt magical and, for the first time, his love felt reciprocated. This rush of the new helped make sense of the falling out with his fiancé, a woman he had loved for a decade. But, when his new girlfriend pulled the plug a few months in and out of nowhere, Kane was devastated. Joining Chelsea 11 minutes in, he opens up about love being like war, where you forge a bond that’s never broken, and draws parallels between love and rage—two emotions that overtake you, that you don’t choose but channel. He talks about human connection being his drug of choice, relationships rooted in trauma, why commonality has nothing to do with love, and the bliss that comes when another makes you feel like you are right just as you are. __To connect with Kane, visit his:Instagram: www.instagram.com/kaneofkanes__Work with Chelsea: www.breakupward.com/shopChelsea’s website: www.breakupward.comSign up for Chelsea’s newsletter: bit.ly/tyhbletterInstagram: www.instagram.com/thankyouheartbreakConnect and send in your questions and/or letters viawww.instagram.com/thankyouheartbreakOr by email: Chelsea@breakupward.com