EP010: Building Upon Your Losses for a Better Relationship with Yourself

Published: Nov. 19, 2015, 9 a.m.

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Many of us are just finding ourselves again in our 40\\u2019s. Our relationships up until this point have been with people in which we share similar emotional attributes. We may be trying to recreate our family of origin because it is a familiar place. When we learn to stop living through other people we start to have better relationships with ourselves. We are then able to build upon our losses and take risks which catapult us into clarity. Through meditation, we can tune into our inner wisdom which will guide us in our journey.

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Key Takeaways:

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[:47] What Susan Sandler shares about herself

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[2:25] A special passage for Susan

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[4:58] Susan\\u2019s father had a nervous breakdown when she was 8

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[7:37] At 20 my therapist was very unorthodox

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[9:57] Marrying someone you don\\u2019t love

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[12:10] We attract people who have similar emotional attributes

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[13:26] Wise words from Susan\\u2019s therapist

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[16:32] I decided to stop living through men

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[19:32] Other events which precipitated Susan\\u2019s clarity

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[22:36] Approaching risks with a new view to encourage character growth

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[27:20] Researching the science of how the brain works

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[31:22] Men are simple creatures, they need to be appreciated

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[35:20] Pick wisely, treat kindly

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[38:02] Using meditation as a tool to release ourselves from our minds\\u2019 control

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[41:50] How to know distinguish between which is your inner voice of wisdom and the mind

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[45:08] It\\u2019s not our imperfections which make us unlovable

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Mentions:

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Lead Deep

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The Untethered Soul - the journey beyond yourself

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Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus\\xa0

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ann@annpeck.com

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Straight Talk for a Curvy World (Link to iTunes)

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