As gender roles, society's perception of gender and societal norms change, more women are claiming their space at work and men are taking the stay-at-home gigs very seriously. During the recent presentation of a new study at the American Sociological Association’s annual conference, 15 years of data revealed some shocking facts about breadwinners. But Stacey and J Sbu really wanted to ask KZN: are the men of KZN mature enough to accept not being the breadwinner?