Tracy Crossley The art of surrender is the best thing ever

Published: Dec. 6, 2017, 2 p.m.

b'Tracy Crossley is a Master Intuitive Coach and Mentor whose work centers on emotional connection. \\nShe helps people get out of their head to uncover the belief system that drives their behavior, then guides them through emotionally-driven actions to break the patterns that keep them stuck. \\nAs someone who struggled with insecure attachment issues for most of her life, Tracy shares her experiences with equal parts empathy and humor. She\\u2019s been there, and knows how much is available to those who refuse to settle. The work she does leads to self-acceptance and a more authentic life.\\nTracy, take a minute and let us know if there is anything we missed in that intro & give us a glimpse into how you started doing the amazing work you do.\\nGuiding Principle, Quote or Mantra\\nTransparent communication is key so nothing gets stuck under the rug.\\xa0\\nWhen You Tripped Up \\nTracy spent many years not taking responsibility for her role in her relationship.\\xa0\\nThen one day she was walking down the street and it slapped her upside the head and said \\u201cHey, you\\u2019re the problem.\\xa0 Until you get this emotionally figured out, you\\u2019re not going anywhere.\\u201d\\nThe \\u201cDUH\\u201d moment that changed your partnerships forever\\nWhen Tracy started speaking her truth it changed a lot. \\nShe gave herself license to express herself no matter what he said or did.\\xa0\\nShe didn\\u2019t say things to get a specific outcome, which is how most people speak.\\xa0 She was speaking because she knew that if she didn\\u2019t express these things she was letting herself down.\\xa0 This is one of the way she developed value.\\nProudest moment in partnership\\nRecently Tracy\\u2019s partner said to her \\u201cYou know I unconditionally love myself.\\u201d\\xa0 And because we are mirrors for each other she realized that says a lot about where she\\u2019s at too.\\nWhat are emotionally driven actions?\\n This is being vulnerable where it\\u2019s not safe.\\xa0 You have to have safety within yourself to do this. \\nSo fascinating.\\xa0 Check this out. \\nWhat is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received? \\nStay open hearted.\\nBest Partnership Resource\\n\\nThe Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom (A Toltec Wisdom Book)\\nInterview Links \\u2013\\nTracy\\u2019s website\\nFacebook\\nTwitter\\nLinkedIn\\nInstagram\\n'