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b'Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, is known as The Relationship Help Doctor, she is a relationship consultant, speaker and author.\\xa0\\nDr. Shaler offers urgent and ongoing care for couples and companies globally. \\nFor over thirty years in both Canada and the United States, Dr. Shaler has calmed the turbulence of troubled relationships. She offers the insights and pattern-breaking skills that lead to blame-free, game-free, non-manipulative relationships. \\nHer book, KAIZEN FOR COUPLES: Smart Steps to Save, Sustain & Strengthen Your Relationship was released in 2014, and ESCAPING THE HIJACKAL TRAP: The Definitive Guide to Dealing with Chronically Difficult People ebook series in 2016. \\nHer specialty is working with the partners, ex\\u2019s, and co-workers of chronically difficult people.\\nGuiding Principle, Quote or Mantra\\nWhat is important is simple.\\nKnow what you value.\\nInvest your time accordingly.\\nThis is integrity.\\nAnd it will bring you peace.\\nWhen You Tripped Up\\nRhoberta was raised by a Hijackal.\\xa0\\nMany years ago, she was dating a guy and she was not noticing the red flags.\\xa0 Not noticing he was a Hijackal because to her his behaviors were familiar from childhood.\\xa0 For a while, she fell for the manipulation.\\xa0\\nHijackals are very charming and they can be skilled at subtle ways of playing on your sympathy and empathy. \\nThe \\u201cDUH\\u201d moment that changed your partnerships forever\\nWhen you are raised by someone who is, what Rhoberta calls, chronically difficult, dysfunctional behaviors seem familiar and is ingrained in you.\\nRhoberta\\u2019s \\u201cDUH\\u201d moment was when she recognized how she was set up to attract people into her life who are like her mother.\\xa0 Someone who never takes responsibility for things and is always blaming you.\\nProudest moment in partnership \\nOne of the things that kept Rhoberta going in her earlier relationships was the belief that it was possible to have a relationship that is completely mutual.\\xa0\\nHer husband took a long time to find, and what they have is what she always believed was possible.\\xa0\\nShe met him online.\\xa0\\nListen to what she said to in her profile that attracted him.\\xa0 It is brilliant!\\nBONUS \\u2013 Find out what a Hokey Pokey Relationship is.\\nWhat is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received?\\n\\nBest Partnership Book\\n\\nThe Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder: New Tools and Techniques to Stop Walking on Eggshells\\n\\nKaizen for Couples: Smart Steps to Save, Sustain & Strengthen Your Relationship\\n\\n<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01DXEQ3XC/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B01DXEQ3XC&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=KCETXBCRMSSHPNC4...'