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b'Larry Michel \\u2013 also known as \\u201cThe Love Shepherd\\u201d is the founder of the School of Genetic Energetics, a Master ERP\\u2122 and host of The Larry Love Show. \\nHe\\u2019s a breakthrough relationship coach, author, trainer, speaker and producer. \\nLarry came to southern California as a former partner of Tony Robbins, having designed and developed Robbin\\u2019s corporate training programs. As an operating partner, he also helped launch John Assaraf in his initial teachings toward Brain Entrapment and Nueroplasticity.\\xa0\\nAs the Founder and voice of TheFourAnswers.com he\\u2019s brought to the world the only scientifically proven online compatibility system that unlocks the mysteries and reveals the true motivations behind our actions, from devastating emotional upsets to our most joyous and blissful experiences. \\nLarry dedicates his life to creating possibility for all of us to live in courageous intimacy, in deep connectivity and in our full loving expression.\\nGuiding Principle, Quote or Mantra\\nRelationships are not hard work.\\xa0 Great relationships flow.\\xa0\\nThe hard work is our ability to be honest and vulnerable and authentic and tapped into who we really are.\\nWhen You Tripped Up\\nLarry\\u2019s biggest trip up in relationships has been around Rational-lies.\\xa0 Describing or discussing something and making it OK.\\nHe would try and solve difficulties by keeping them inside so no one else had to know.\\xa0 But they still knew.\\xa0\\nHis belief system that he had to work out things on his own all the time is what did the damage to his relationships.\\xa0 Until Larry stepped into courageous intimacy, he was always undermining the connection in his relationships.\\nProudest moment in partnership\\nThe woman in Larry\\u2019s life right now is the most exciting relationship he has ever had.\\nWhat makes it so special is that a lot of the things he needed to learn, he fully embraces now.\\xa0 Courageous Intimacy is a big part of it.\\nAnd the fact that they both are inspiring and inspired by each other creates magic in their life on a regular basis.\\nHow can we be Courageously Intimate without being needy?\\nNeediness is relying on other people to assist us with our challenges and our issues.\\xa0 Almost like we are constantly taking from them to feed ourselves.\\xa0 This is not good balance.\\nWhen Larry is being Courageously Intimate he first asks himself if it is his issue or something else? \\nIf something has it\\u2019s emotional grip on him, he asks \\u201cWhat do I have to believe to feel this way right now?\\u201d\\xa0 Then ask, \\u201cIs that my belief?\\u201d\\nIf it is your belief ask \\u201cWhy do I believe it?\\u201d\\xa0 Because we hang onto beliefs because we are getting some benefit from it.\\xa0 Then ask, \\u201cWhat is that benefit?\\u201d\\nBeing curious will free you from being stuck.\\nWe all do the best we can with the resources we have.\\xa0 If someone views you as needy it may be that they don\\u2019t have the resources right now to help you, and they have some work to do on themselves.\\nThis does not make either person wrong.\\xa0 It is an observation of what is going on in the moment.\\nWhat is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received?\\nLook inward and go inquire about what you have to believe and are holding onto that is in the way of being able to show up fully for your partner. \\nBe excited and do your own inner work first.\\nBest Partnership Book\\n\\nPsycho-Cybernetics: Updated and Expanded'