Kelsey Grant What Would Love Do?

Published: Nov. 30, 2016, 2 p.m.

b'Kelsey Grant is passionate about living in a world where people feel inspired, fulfilled, balanced and happy within the expansiveness of their intimate relationships. \\nAs a Love and Relationship Educator rooted in Radical Self Love Methodology, she writes, speaks and teaches coaches, thought leaders and game changers how to access greater alignment with love for their leadership and relationships to thrive.\\nHer commitment to love runs deep as she is also the founder and facilitator of a local sisterhood circle that creates safe space for women to open their hearts and share what is really going on behind the scenes of their lives. \\nCurrently, she is teaching the essential tools we \\u201cdon\\u2019t know we don\\u2019t know\\u201d about love and partnership that are key foundations to creating and maintaining relationships that really work.\\nGuiding Principle, Quote or Mantra\\nWhat would love do?\\nWhenever she is down in the dumps or spinning into a darker place, she comes back to this question:\\xa0\\nWhat would love do?\\xa0\\nWhat would love say?\\xa0\\nHow would love handle this?\\nThis helps ground Kelsey back into her heart.\\nIt creates a little bit of space between the thought and the action.\\xa0 Which gives her time to make a better choice.\\nWhen You Tripped Up \\nEarly on in a recent relationship Kelsey had, she got tripped up on her jealousy and insecurity.\\nOne woman in particular had come into their lives and she felt incredibly threatened by.\\nHere old mechanisms of handling jealously started to rise up instead of asking \\u201cwhat would love do?\\u201d she operated on auto pilot and got reactive.\\xa0 This left no space for the truth to emerge.\\nThis approach eventually led to the relationships coming to an end temporarily. \\nThe \\u201cDUH\\u201d moment that changed your partnerships forever\\nOne of Kelsey\\u2019s big DUH moments was when she realized that she was depending on her partner to give her pieces of her self esteem back.\\xa0 And looking to him for approval and validation.\\nShe started asking herself, who was it she needed recognition from?\\xa0 The first answer she got was herself.\\nAs uncomfortable as this was, Kelsey gave herself a 30 day challenge of owning every day what she did that was self loving and how she had cared for herself that day.\\xa0 And she did it on Facebook to hold herself accountable by making it public.\\nThis helped her move past the resistance she had to being seen and being recognized.\\nThe second place she was seeking recognition was from her father. So Kelsey called up her Dad and said \\u201cI really need to know that you\\u2019re proud of me.\\u201d\\xa0 This is the first time she had been courageous enough to ask him.\\nOnce she asked for what she needed, he was able to provide it.\\xa0 And this was so nourishing to her.\\nProudest moment in partnership\\xa0\\nWhen Kelsey and her partner have authentic and really heart opening conversations she always feels proud.\\nThe acceptance of who he is fully creates the space for him to do the same for her.\\nBeing seen and accepted deeply are some of the proudest moments of her partnership.\\nWhat is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received?\\nApproach your relationship as a path and not a destination.\\nThis allows you to meet whatever arrises on your journey with curiosity and love and compassion.\\xa0 Then you can use your partnership as a vessel for personal development both independently and as a couple. \\nIf you see it as a path that is ever evolving and ever expanding this creates a lot of space for acceptance.\\nBest Partnership Book\\n\\n<a href="https://www.amazon.'