Dr. Lara & Johnny Fernandez Be Proactive in Your Love Life

Published: March 16, 2016, 1 p.m.

b'Dr. Lara and Johnny Fernandez have a mission to empower single, conscious women through their relationships.\\nWomen from all over the world learn with Johnny and Lara through their deeply transformational and life-changing courses and programs.\\xa0 Every Spring, women travel the globe to attend their annual Love Breakthrough Weekend event in California.\\nThey have been happily married for over 15 years, and live in the San Francisco Bay area.\\nGuiding Principle, Quote or Mantra\\nJohnny \\u2013 Happy wife, happy life.\\xa0 Being the best man and husband he can be is what allows this to happen\\nLara \\u2013\\xa0Be a rebel.\\xa0Be willing to think differently.\\nTripped Up in a Partnership\\nJohnny \\u2013 The time he was having a big argument with Lara and then realized he was not really arguing with her.\\xa0 He was in an argument with all his previous bad relationships.\\nLara \\u2013 She learned from this episode that she can speak her truth and have him hear her.\\xa0 It reminded her the benefit of having a growth mindset. \\nThe \\u201cDUH\\u201d moment that changed your partnerships forever\\nLara \\u2013 She was bemoaning yet another failed relationship when her relationship coach drew her attention to the common denominator in all her relationships.\\xa0 And it woke her up\\xa0\\nProudest moment in partnership \\nJohnny \\u2013 Being together as a family and having their young daughter, Isabelle, say \\xa0\\xa0And then she wrote them a note.\\nLara \\u2013 Realizing they must be doing something right as parents because of what their daughter wrote about them on the bathroom wall.\\nCurrent Partnership that Has You Excited\\nJohnny \\u2013 Being honored to help women all over the world find love.\\nLara \\u2013 How close they get to become with the women they work with.\\xa0 It is like family.\\nWhat is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received?\\nLara \\u2013 You don\\u2019t have to have it all together to find love.\\xa0 When you operate from this believe you are practicing perfectionism and that is postponing love until you\\u2019re perfect\\u2026and we all know you will never be perfect.\\nJohnny \\u2013 Love matters most.\\nBest Partnership Book or Resource\\nMen of Quality Do Exist video series\\nFind Your Love Pattern quiz\\n\\nMindset: The New Psychology of Success\\nParting Advice\\nFor Single Women \\u2013 Don\\u2019t sit back and wait.\\xa0 Be proactive in your love life.\\xa0 And be willing to do something different and out of your comfort zone.\\nFor Married Women \\u2013 Be sure to place your self care at a high level in your life.\\xa0 You taking care of you will keep you grounded and peaceful.\\n\\u201cLife isn\\u2019t about finding yourself.\\xa0 Life is about creating yourself.\\u201d \\u2013 George Bernard Shaw\\nInterview Links \\u2013 \\nJohnnyandLara.com\\nFacebook Page\\n'