Chelli Pumphrey Partnership is the foundation to build your life upon

Published: April 7, 2016, noon

b'Chelli Pumphrey is a licensed professional counselor and a dating coach from Denver, Colorado.\\xa0\\nShe is devoted to helping others live and love passionately by gaining the confidence to be authentic in their relationships. \\nChelli offers retreats, therapy, and coaching for those looking for guidance on how to keep their minds calm and their hearts strong on their quest for love.\\nGuiding Principle, Quote or Mantra\\nBe brave.\\xa0Be you.\\xa0And be loved.\\nTripped Up in a Partnership\\nShe was married for 10 years and most of the time was unfulfilled and unhappy. \\xa0 She did not know how to be brave, assert her needs and be loved and it ended up in divorce.\\nChelli entered the dating world again and eventually realized she was doing exactly what she did in her marriage and it was not working.\\xa0 Just kept repeating the same relationship over and over.\\nThen started a huge effort to take a risk and it paid off big time\\u2026\\nThe \\u201cDUH\\u201d moment that changed your partnerships forever\\nChelli was in a relationship that fed her belief that \\u201cshe wasn\\u2019t good enough.\\u201d\\xa0 Then she started to learn about attachment theory and realized that her \\u201cattachment stuff\\u201d was getting in the way of a healthy relationship.\\xa0\\nApplying what she learned allowed her to transform her relationships and find partners who were a better match for her.\\nProudest moment in partnership \\nHer most recent relationship is her one of her proudest moments in partnership because it is crystal clear that she has changed many of her old patterns.\\xa0 To feel respected and cared for in this new way, makes her light up.\\nCurrent Partnership that Has You Excited\\nThe relationships where she is authentic and vulnerable.\\xa0 Where her and her partner take those risks with each other.\\xa0 It is a two way street. \\nWhat is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received?\\nTake the risk to be yourself and be authentic.\\xa0 If something isn\\u2019t working for you, it\\u2019s probably time to take a risk and try something different.\\nBest Partnership Book\\n\\n\\nWired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner\\u2019s Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship\\n\\n\\xa0\\nAttached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find \\u2013 and Keep \\u2013 Love\\nPayoff of Partnership \\u2013 \\nA good partnership is like a foundation.\\xa0 And when you have that foundation, you can build the rest of your life on top of it with confidence.\\nInterview Links \\u2013 \\nwww.AuthenticDate.com\\nChelli\\u2019s Facebook Page'