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b'Bobbi Palmer is The Dating and Relationship Coach for Women over 40 and founder of Date Like a Grownup. \\nWith her expert guidance; smart, independent woman from all over the world are now sharing the intimacy, passion and partnership of a grownup relationship with their special man. \\nFed up with being single, and determined to succeed in her romantic life (like she had in the rest of her life), Bobbi finally figured out \\u2018the man thing\\u2019 and became a first-time bride at age 47. Now joyfully married, she walks her talk every day as she helps women around the world do what she did: find fantastic, forever love after 40.\\nGuiding Principle, Quote or Mantra\\n\\u201cBeing deeply loved by someone gives you strength.\\xa0 While loving someone deeply gives you courage.\\u201d \\u2013 Lao Tzu\\nBobbi lacked courage for so long.\\xa0 The courage to love and be loved.\\xa0 And this is what she lives by in her marriage. \\nWhen You Tripped Up \\nWhen Bobbi was 35 she was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis and at the time it knocked her on her butt and gave her a wonderful gift.\\nShe was working night and day to have control over her life, putting it into her job and her career.\\xa0 This gave her a sense of control, but this diagnosis reminder her she really didn\\u2019t have the control she thought she did.\\nBobbi decided to get serious and look for love.\\xa0 She met a guy named Steve and they were together about 3 1/2 years.\\nOn their second date he told her he was never getting married again and he would never marry her.\\xa0\\nThe tripping up part was it took her 3 1/2 years to believe him.\\nThere were so many signs that he meant what he said.\\nThey had a great relationship, but they wanted different things.\\xa0\\nBut she didn\\u2019t want to see the signs and was convinced he would fall in love with her and change his mind. \\nWhat Bobbi learned from this very painful experience is: take care of yourself, believe what men say and set boundaries for yourself.\\xa0 Really know what you want and if you aren\\u2019t getting it, ask for it.\\nProudest moment in partnership \\nBobbi\\u2019s proudest moment is jumping in with her husband, and being in her partnership with him for 10 years.\\xa0 It is the best thing she has ever done.\\nIt\\u2019s hard.\\xa0 It\\u2019s a long road and she is proud to have navigated it.\\nWhen she was 45 she was so sick of being single and not knowing why. \\nSo she got help figuring out what it was that she didn\\u2019t know that other people seemed to know.\\nFor her to open herself up and acknowledge that she did not know how to do this was a really big deal.\\nPutting her walls down was a huge deal.\\xa0 And her husband Larry and her met and married in six months.\\nWhat is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received?\\nMen are not hairy women.\\xa0 Bobbi learned this from Alison Armstrong.\\nRespect your partner and work hard to understand them with compassion and empathy.\\nBest Partnership Book or Resource\\n\\nConfessions of the World\\u2019s Worst Dater: Her 7 Secrets to Finally Finding Love After 40\\n\\nMaking Sense of Men: A Woman\\u2019s Guide to a Lifetime of Love, Care and Attention from All Men\\nInterview Links \\u2013 \\nFREE GIFT \\u2013 Four Devastating Mistakes Women Over 40 Make In Their Search for Love...'