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Rosa supports leaders and groups around the world to work creatively with divergent perspectives. Her mission is developing our collective capacity to transform friction into useful energy and greater insight. Author of From Conflict to Creative Collaboration, a manual on Dynamic Facilitation. She also just finished her Ph.D. so soon we should say Dr. Rosa Zubizaretta.\xa0 This has freed up her time to take on new clients after some time steeped in academia.\nWhat would happen if helping a neighbor with a conflict was as normal as waking up in the morning?\xa0 What if our companies had an ethos that conflict is not only natural but good and has a hearty system for restoring after conflict?\xa0 That is what Traci and Rosa discuss as well as why we need to not start with our most difficult political rivals but make resolving conflict with those close to us our first order of business.\nEpisode Timeline\n\n[00:09] Intro\xa0\n[1:41] Meet Rosa\n[3:21] Rosa\u2019s contribution to the Sidewalk Talk Bus Tour\n[5:23] German and European ties\n[7:16] We need each other\n[8:51] De shame yourself\n[11:42] Common causes of conflict\n[15:43] How conflict is in heaven\n[18:56] Dominic Barter\u2019s restorative circles\n[25:40] Start where it is easy\n[33:30] Love wrestling with your husband\n[38:08] Passionate conflict is an energy turbine\n[41:32] The roots of violence\n[46:18] Closing\n[48:35] Outro\n\nResources Mentioned\nFrom Conflict to Creative Collaboration (Book)\nStandout Quotes\n\n\u201cI just want to start with the fact that as human beings, we get into messes with each other\u201d (Rosa)\n\u201cAnybody can learn how to hold space productively for another person and listen deeply.\u201d (Rosa)\n\u201cIf the 99 % could figure out how to do collaboration between us, we'd be so F* strong,\u201d (Rosa)\n\u201cBut we grew up in a culture where we do not learn how to confront people with love. \u201d (Rosa)\n\u201cConflict happens when we're at our edge. It's like, there's an edge there. There's something that I don't know or understand yet, or something's getting triggered or something. And so it's a potential growth place. \u201d (Rosa)\n\u201cI think conflict is a potentially renewable, sustainable source of energy \u201d (Rosa)\n\u201cWe just have to open the space so that we are not butt heads against each other, but that that passion gets harnessed.\u201d (Rosa)\n\nConnect\nFind | Sidewalk Talk\xa0\nAt sidewalk-talk.org\nOn Instagram: @sidewalktalkorg\nOn Twitter: @sidewalktalkorg\n\xa0\nFind | Traci Ruble\nAt Traciruble.com\nOn Instagram: @TraciRubleMFT\nOn Twitter: @TraciRubleMFT\nOn Facebook: @TraciRubleMFT\n\xa0\nFind | Rosa Zubizarreta\nAt www.diapraxis.com\xa0\nwww.co-intelligence.institute\nOn LinkedIn: @rosazubizarreta\n\xa0\nSUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST\nOn Apple Podcasts\nOn Google Podcasts\nOn Spotify\nOn YouTube