Nina Hartley: Porn Star, Activist, and Hand Job Expert

Published: Sept. 19, 2013, 10:47 p.m.

b"The iconic Porn Star Nina Hartley talks about making porn, feminism, non-monogamy, and how to give a woman the perfect hand job (there is some light pulling and pinching involved). Nina Hartley also talks boldly about the butt. Nina says, \\u201cButts are like cats. They have to be coaxed and seduced every time. They are moody and you can\\u2019t fool a butt into liking you, or feeling relaxed. Butts know when the thing touching them is paying attention, or being a jerk.\\u201d In other words, if you want to get down and dirty with anal sex, you must have open communication with your partner and feel genuinely comfortable with your butt (and what\\u2019s going on inside of it). While drunken anal sex might seem like the greatest thing in the world, it\\u2019s better to be fully aware of what is happening and be cognizant of hygiene rules. Before you even get to anal sex or intercourse for that matter, you need to find out what kind of relationships you\\u2019re looking for. Are you monogamous and looking for one mate, or are you non-monogamous and ready to land in more than one place? Nina talks about her sexual identity and how she embraced a non-monogamous lifestyle. When we're younger, we often make the same mistakes over and over again. Sleeping with people who don\\u2019t care about us, and getting in relationships with people who don\\u2019t want the same things as we do, and feeling guilty for having a love life that falls short of a romantic comedy. You have to figure out what works for you, and not anyone else. Some people enjoy random sex, other people don\\u2019t. Nina enjoys doing porn because she likes having sex with people without having to date them. Other people find that having sex with strangers makes them feel empty. Find out what kind of relationships makes you happy, and don\\u2019t look back. Finally, Nina Hartley gives descriptive directions on how to pleasure a woman with your hands. You\\u2019ll learn how to lightly pinch and pull her clitoris and make it move. Nina gives great foreplay tips, because unless she says, \\u201cdo me right now you sexy beast,\\u201d you\\u2019re going to have to get her warmed up for sex. Special Offer for listeners of Sex with Emily: Freak In The Sheets If you want to change your love life check out:\\xa0Emily and Tony,\\xa0Promescent,Crazy Girl,\\xa0Max4Men,\\xa0Masque, and\\xa0Good Vibrations.\\xa0Emily and Tony\\xa0is a premium, intimate personal-care brand that believes intimacy should be fun, flirty, sensual and natural. Our products:\\xa0Aromatherapy Massage Candle,\\xa0Personal Naturally Hydrating Lubricant, and\\xa0DownUnder Comfort\\xa0for you sweaty nether regions. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at\\xa0Crazy Girl\\xa0and\\xa0Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at\\xa0Good Vibrations. Or use coupon code Emily for 15% off anything at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information."