This week on the show the ladies explore Mel Robbins "Let them" theory mindset hack. With over 20 million views, 1.5 million likes, and tens of thousands of comments - it had to be something we checked out.\nMel Robbins says \u201cSo much time and energy is wasted on forcing other people to match our expectations. So instead of attempting to control people or circumstances, you allow things to be as they are, rather than letting this stuff control you\u201d\xa0\nTune in to see how Lauren and Nicole get on with this revolutionary practice.\nIf you like what we do here and want to be part of the club, come follow us at all our channels\xa0\n\nFor our exclusive merch - https://self-care-club.myspreadshop.co.uk/\n\n\nJoin our private facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/1115099072702743/?ref=share_group_link\n\n\nInstagram\xa0https://www.instagram.com/selfcareclubpod/\n\n\nYouTube\t https://youtube.com/c/SelfCareClub\n\n\nTikTok https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMLnXyS1S/\n\n\nEmail hello@theselfcareclub.co.uk\xa0\n\nWebsite www.theselfcareclub.co.uk\n\n\n\n\nStudio production by @launchpodstudios Music by purpleplanet.com\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices