It is causing you even more pain. Only you can change you! Stop blaming others! Stop looking for others to change you, to complete you, or to make your life better. No one can do it for you, it's a task only you can complete! Stop settling for being that person holding in the hurt and pain. Stop being that person inflicting your hurt onto others, because they had nothing to do with it! Unlock the doors and release yourself from the prison you've created! You deserve better and you ARE worthy!!