Raising Children Today

Published: April 2, 2020, 7 a.m.

A new mom once said, “I have had a hard enough time trying to navigate the growing secularism in the world. How on earth will I raise my children to know and love Jesus?” Her question took me aback. Since my kids are now adults, I hadn’t thought about what it must be like to have young children in this day and age, when there are blurred lines about so many moral issues. Honestly, I don’t have a magic formula, but I can encourage you first to talk to your children about Jesus. Second, really, really help them memorize Bible verses, such as John 3:16, which says, “God so loved the world that he sent his only son, that whoever believes in Him shall not parish, but will have eternal life.” These verses will stick with them when they encounter tricky situations. But third, don’t just talk about Jesus; you must also own your faith. Fourth, be prepared to answer questions your kids may have about why you believe. Be honest with them. And when you don’t know the answer to a question they may have, simply say, “I will search for an answer in the Bible and let you know.” And perhaps you might reach out to a pastor or mentor for extra advice or counsel if you need it. Fifth, keep an open dialogue with your children about Jesus, and about all of life, so they feel comfortable talking to you about Him. And finally, pray for your children. And, pray with your children.                  This is Luis Palau.