Leading Your Church without Losing Your Children

Published: June 6, 2023, 10 a.m.

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\\nYou can be a good parent and a good pastor. Leading a church does not mean losing your children. Thom and Sam talk about raising preacher\'s kids and some potential pitfalls to avoid when parenting as a church leader.
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\\n \\tYour home is your first priority in ministry, but do not detach your home from the church.
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\\n \\tEven in unhealthy churches, there can be healthy relationships with your children.
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\\n \\tBe transparent about the church with your children but avoid badmouthing members.
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\\n \\tDon\'t pour out your church stress on your family.
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\\n \\tLead both your home and your church with an optimistic outlook.
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\\n \\tFamily prayer and devotions are just as important as good ministry strategy and sermons.
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