We must have boundaries, and be able to recognize when people or situations are not right for us.\xa0 \xa0It may be right for other people but not us.\xa0 It can be a challenge.\xa0 We are conditioned to be nice, be polite, or we are labeled a witch with a b.\xa0\xa0\n\nCan you hear my eye roll as I typed that?\xa0 \xa0\n\nNo.\xa0 Just No.\xa0 If that makes you uncomfortable as a complete sentence you can say No, Thank You.\xa0 \xa0\n\nIf something or someone feels off to you, do your best to take a step back. disengage until you can recognize why.\xa0 We tend to dismiss the red flags.