How do We Help The People We Love Get Through Hard Times In Life?

Published: June 13, 2018, 8 p.m.

b"In life, we want our loved ones to be happy, whole, capable and complete.\\xa0 We want to see them healthy, wealthy and wise, living a life that's a pure joy to behold and inspiring to be a part of.\\xa0 However, in the real world it can be gut wrenching watching as their lives unfold one crisis after another.\\xa0 Wanting what you want for them and trying to make them do your bidding, no matter how forcefully or gently it\\u2019s put across, usually leads to the dissolution of relationships and friendships.\\xa0 The bottom line is this, I can\\u2019t want something that I deem best for you to happen in your life, and expect it to happen, if you don\\u2019t want the same thing too.\\xa0 You, must want it too.\\xa0 Ask any parent or guardian if this is not a bonified fact.\\n\\n\\tWe spend an enormous amount of time coaxing, cajoling, pleading, blackmailing, bargaining etc., people we love to do our so called, \\u201cright-thinking\\u201d bidding.\\xa0 Why? \\xa0Because we feel, based on our personal experiences and our knowledge of them that we know what\\u2019s best for them.\\xa0 The sad reality is we don\\u2019t.\\xa0 We don\\u2019t know what\\u2019s best for someone, even our loved ones.\\xa0 Even if we think we do and ironically it turns out that what we thought actually came to pass.\\xa0 \\xa0Even then, we don\\u2019t really know, as each of us is on a unique journey.\\xa0 It\\u2019s our individual journey, because this page in the book of life belongs to you, and only you.\\xa0 This page has been allocated for you by you.\\xa0 And as such, you are the creative writer of the text.\\xa0 \\xa0The key to helping someone, isn\\u2019t so much about telling them what to do, as it is how you choose to show up.\\n\\n\\n\\tJoin me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction In Action Coach and Olivia Lashley, Expression and Laws of Attraction In Action Coach as we talk frankly about helping the people we love."