Don't Play Fair

Published: April 29, 2018, 10 a.m.

We are taught early in life to play fair, to be fair. But fair doesn’t work well in a relational context. We can be good to people who are good to us but what about those who are bad – hurtful – disrespectful? In order to live at peace with everyone, we can’t be fair. So how do we live at peace? How do we handle the relational debts that are owed us? Chris takes us deeper into the idea of forgiveness and how it is more about giving someone what they need rather than what they deserve.