Published: May 5, 2020, 5 a.m.
Life Is Work - Ep 10 - Neutral Facilitation
Area of Work: Meaningful Meetings
Co-hosts, Producers:
Danielle Stenger
Cameron Navarro, LMSW
Mel’s Mindful Minute: 29:32
Melanie Wilmoth Navarro, LMSW, RYT, TSTSY-F
Owner, Lead Instructor - Whole Moon Wellness
wholemoonwellness@gmail.com
Contact Info:
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Email
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Music:
Intro - King Must Die, by Picnic Lightning
MMM Transitions - Sur, by Picnic Lightning
Outro - Pa’lante, by Hurray for the Riff Raff
Neutral Facilitation
Result: To provide listeners an understanding of the basic tenets of neutral facilitation and be able to use them in their next meeting (whether you have a formal neutral facilitator present or not!)
- Definition
- A key role to successful results-based meetings that requires at least one person in the room stay as neutral as possible in order to help the group stay focused on the result.
- Role clarity
- If your role is to serve as neutral facilitator, it helps if you are not necessarily a content expert in what is being discussed. Select someone who is /most/ neutral to what the decision is exactly, and is more tied to moving the work forward
- Meeting engineering
- Result/agenda creation
- In the meeting
- Open-ended questions (better than yes or no)
- Examples:
- “What questions do you have?” Is better than “Do you have any questions?”
- “What am I missing?” Vs. “Do you have anything to add?”
- Reflective listening
- Repeat back what you’ve heard/understood
- Charting/recording
- Clarifying questions
- Honoring agreements
Questions
- How do you keep people focused on the purpose of the meeting? Most meetings seem to stray into bizarre tangents and then when the participants realize time is short, they rush through the topics that were scheduled to be covered.
Mel’s Mindful Minute: 29:32
- Centering & Grounding Technique
We Are Always Students
Sharing is Self-Caring
- Self-care - Start With You!
- Self-care
- If neutral facilitation - plan for 5 minutes prior to be “centering” time
- Try to plan a built-in processing time to your calendar right after meeting time
- Community-care - Taking Care of Others
- Post-meeting processing/reflecting (After Action Review)
- Ask for feedback and support during meetings (Be clear about what feedback you are looking for)
- Systemic/Structural-Care - The Wider Systems We Live & Work In
- Host workshop about experience/tools as you become comfortable
- Offer to facilitate different dept/org/hierarchy meetings
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