Published: Feb. 9, 2022, 2:05 p.m.

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It\\u2019s that time of the year again, the month of love! And since love is in the air, I invited Eli Rallo (@eli.rallo) on the pod, an iconic Tiktok star who is known for giving everyone the hot girl tips in terms of dating, relationships, self care, and just loving yourself.

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In this episode, Eli and I talk about how to conquer Valentine\'s Day, whether you\'re single or in a relationship, and how it\'s important for us to switch our perspectives. Grab your pen and paper, because I\\u2019m sure you\\u2019ll want to take some notes on what she has to say. Let\\u2019s go!

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episode breakdown:

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• What Eli learned in her twenties
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• Growing up in Jersey and moving to the city to get her Master\\u2019s amidst the pandemic
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• Eli ventured into the digital space full time + writing a book
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• The process of writing a book
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• Writing about dating and relationships for young women
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• How to handle Valentine\\u2019s when there are no \\u2018labels\\u2019
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• Why labels matter and why labels don\\u2019t matter
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• Knowing the difference between the good guys and the bad guys
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• Valentine\\u2019s is not just about romantic love, it\\u2019s all about love in general
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• Negative energy around Valentine\'s Day, will give you negativity in return
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• Valentine\\u2019s is not just spent with a significant other, it\\u2019s all about celebrating love with friends and family
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• How Eli met her boyfriend
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• Dating apps are the new wave but they can also lead to miscommunication
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• How Eli came up with the idea of posting content about rules list on Tiktok
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• Eli talks about her favorite rules list, Manipulating someone to fall in love with you
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• Four days is what it takes to make him fall for you
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• Manipulate people to fall in love with you + know your worth. Remember, you are in your 20\\u2019s, not everything is figured out, and that\\u2019s okay.
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To learn more and connect with Eli, head over to:

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On Tiktok

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On Instagram

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On Spotify

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Host: Tinah (Tina with an H) Ogalo @tinah.ogalo

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PSSSSSTTT. If you liked the episode, please tell your friends / follow / rate / review - I\'d love to hear your thoughts! xx

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