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b'During World War II nearly one billion letters were sent to the front, but none struck more fear in the heart of the average soldier than the one that began with the following: \\u201cDear John: I don\\u2019t know quite how to begin but I just want to say that Joe Doakes came to town on furlough the other night and he looked very handsome in his uniform, so when he asked me for a date\\u2026\\u201d Such is an example of the \\u201cDear John\\u201d letters that World War II G.I.s received from sweethearts or wives at home who had decided to politely, but unceremoniously, end their relationship. Though the phrase \\u201cDear John\\u201d was coined during World War II and the break-up letters have found their way into every American war since then, the exact origins of the term have always been shrouded in obscurity.


In her new book Dear John: Love and Loyalty in Wartime America, historian and today\\u2019s guest Susan L. Carruthers details the history of the \\u201cDear John\\u201d letter and explores wartime relationships and breakdowns from multiple perspectives\\u2014civilian and military, male and female, historical and contemporary. Using a diverse range of research, using personal letters, declassified documents, press reports, psychiatric literature, movies, and popular music, Carruthers also shows how the armed forces and civilian society have attempted to weaponize romantic love in pursuit of martial ends, from World War II to today. Though many U.S. officers, servicemen, veterans, and civilians would agree that \\u201cDear John\\u201d letters are lethal weapons in the hands of men at war, Carruthers explains that efforts to discipline feelings have frequently failed. We discuss the interplay between letter-writing and storytelling, breakups and breakdowns, and between imploded intimacy and boosted camaraderie. Incorporating vivid personal experiences in lively and engaging prose\\u2014variously tragic, comic, and everything in between\\u2014this compelling study will change the way we think about wartime relationships.


As Carruthers explains, \\u201cMaking romantic intimacy serve the cause of victory has never been straightforward for the military. Nor has making love work in wartime been simple for individuals and couples. The reasons why can be discerned by reading the subtexts and contexts of \\u2018Dear John\\u2019 letters, and by listening attentively to what men and women have had to say about the fragility of love at war.\\u201d'